记录了外籍高管在上海安家后，如何通过中介雇佣私人司机或保姆，以及面试和沟通要求的常用表达。
Notes on common expressions for foreign executives to hire private drivers or nannies through agencies, and how to interview and communicate requirements after settling in Shanghai.
动作 1：提出雇佣需求 / Stating hiring requirements
常用句：“我想找一位会开车的全职司机。”
(Wo xiang zhao yi wei hui kai che de quan zhi si ji.)
“I want to find a full-time driver who can drive.”
情景对白 / Dialogue:
你：“保姆需要负责做饭和打扫卫生，会说英语优先。”
(Ni: Bao mu xu yao fu ze zuo fan he da sao wei sheng, hui shuo ying yu you xian.)
You: “The nanny needs to be responsible for cooking and cleaning, English speaker preferred.”中介：“好的，我帮您筛选几个有涉外经验的阿姨。”
(Zhong jie: Hao de, wo bang nin shai xuan ji ge you she wai jing yan de a yi.)
Agency: “Okay, I’ll screen a few aunties with foreign-related experience for you.”
习惯备注：本地家政服务人员（保姆）通常被称为“阿姨”。有涉外经验、懂基本英语的阿姨价格会高很多。
Habit Note: Local domestic workers (nannies) are usually called “a yi” (auntie). Aunties with foreign-related experience and basic English cost much more.
动作 2：面试司机 / Interviewing the driver
常用句：“你对上海的路况熟悉吗？”
(Ni dui shang hai de lu kuang shu xi ma?)
“Are you familiar with Shanghai’s traffic conditions?”
情景对白 / Dialogue:
司机：“非常熟悉，我开专车五年了。”
(Si ji: Fei chang shu xi, wo kai zhuan che wu nian le.)
Driver: “Very familiar, I’ve been driving for a ride-hailing service for five years.”你：“我平时晚上应酬比较多，有时需要很晚下班，你能接受吗？”
(Ni: Wo ping shi wan shang ying chou bi jiao duo, you shi xu yao hen wan xia ban, ni neng jie shou ma?)
You: “I have a lot of business dinners in the evening, sometimes I need to get off work very late. Can you accept that?”
习惯备注：给高管做司机，往往需要随时待命。面试时明确工作时长和加班费，能避免后期的纠纷。
Habit Note: Being a driver for an executive often requires being on standby. Clarifying working hours and overtime pay during the interview can avoid future disputes.
动作 3：明确工作界限 / Setting boundaries
常用句：“工作期间请不要在车内吸烟。”
(Gong zuo qi jian qing bu yao zai che nei xi yan.)
“Please do not smoke in the car during working hours.”
情景对白 / Dialogue:
你：“阿姨，冰箱里的食材你可以随便用，但贵重物品请别动。”
(Ni: A yi, bing xiang li de shi cai ni ke yi sui bian yong, dan gui zhong wu pin qing bie dong.)
You: “Auntie, you can use the ingredients in the fridge freely, but please don’t touch the valuables.”保姆：“我明白的，我会遵守家里的规矩。”
(Bao mu: Wo ming bai de, wo hui zun shou jia li de gui ju.)
Nanny: “I understand, I will follow the house rules.”
习惯备注：中国雇主和家政人员往往界限模糊。一开始就把规矩（如隐私、吸烟、请假等）立清楚，对双方都有利。
Habit Note: The boundaries between Chinese employers and domestic workers are often blurred. Setting the rules clearly from the beginning (like privacy, smoking, leave, etc.) benefits both parties.